They say patience is a virtue, and Lauren Harkins has mastered it. At 34 years old, she’s traded in messy breakups and awkward hookups for peace of mind and a lot more “me time.” While others may call her single status unconventional, Lauren’s over here living her best baggage-free life—and she’s not in a rush to change that. Why settle when you can be single, celibate, and absolutely thriving?

I’m a 34-year-old virgin — this is the best thing about abstaining from sex